Everybody wants what feels good. Everyone wants to live a carefree, happy and easy life, to fall in love and have amazing relationships, to look perfect and make money and be popular and well-respected and admired to the point that people part like the Red Sea when you walk into the room.
What everyone does not realize is that all of that is just a RESULT of an inside job. An inside job that transcends just positive thinking and making the right choices.
This inside job has two sides, the bright side is when all is in ‘flow’, we wake up on the right side of the bed and our bosses are nice to us and basically we feel happy, and the other is the dark side. The dark side, I believe is the absolute powerhouse of transformation. It is the part of us that curses the driver that suddenly overtook in front of us, the pangs of loneliness we feel that cannot be explained, or when that deep knowing your relationship might come to an end.
Unfortunately most people do not believe there is the dark side, much else want to endure it. However, when we go through the dark side, its like an alchemy at work, the pain and uncertainty will transform into your most powerful, strong self ready to take the next step.
Writing my best-selling book” The Greater Purpose” was a salvation for me during a time I truly felt stuck. I was transitioning from a sales career that was no longer fulfilled me, resulting in a drop in income plus my fiancé just dumped me. My days were a blur with nothing to look forward to. At that time I found solace in spiritual authors and my mentor Oprah Winfrey. The book “ A New Earth” helped me mobilize through the gut-wrenching time.
Looking back now, I knew that if I didn’t go through that arduous, dark time, I wouldn’t be nearly equipped to help the multi-faceted challenges my clients are now facing. By working through my own feelings of hurt and despair, I was intricately peeling and understanding my own strength. One that is inside all of us.
I now instinctively know the feelings of frustration, loneliness, despair that some of them feel. Not just somebody coaching from a book/program module. And that is why I am effective.
Which is why I invite you to work through that dark part of the inside job. Do not run away from it. Feel it. Embrace it and then move forward with gusto. I promise you it:
1) Will be brighter once you cross over
2) Will be that ONE phase your future, fantastic self will be so THANKFUL for, cause it brought you to the AWESOME place you are already in.
Have a great rest of the week!
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Lots of Love <3,
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